Okay, so I was walking around some mall when I saw some ads for lingerie with conventionally hot models. I looked at their legs, boobs, the lace and noticing the structure of her bones and my instant thought was "people like this? her bones look yucky" Then it hit me. I haven't had an irl romantic interest in nearly 3 years and haven't felt sexually attracted to someone irl in more than a year. I don't find 3DPD porn arousing and don't like jerking off either. Obviously it wasn't always this way. Its frustrating because I like my dose romance slop but have stopped getting crushes on irl people years ago. What the hell is happening to me? Why am I loveless/sexless all of a sudden?

 

You what it's gonna be when it's a Tomoko picture, I kinda even had fun, you know? Like making a guess a being correct.
>Is this normal?
No.
>What the hell is happening to me?
Your brain cells died.
>Why am I loveless/sexless all of a sudden
Too much screen time, too few brain cells.

 

The bones are one of the most important parts of what makes someone sexy.
>>5397
Do you ever look at your posts and wonder if you're a good example of what others should look up to?

 

>>5395
Looks like you accidentally typed the wrong url into your search bar. Let me redirect you = 4chan.org/r9k/ run along now

 

>>5399
>>5399
NTA but I thought /kind/ is the /r9k/ of this site?
(It’s bad btw)

 

>>5398
>Do you ever look at your posts and wonder if you're a good example of what others should look up to?
Omit a few sleepy typos and I think I gave a fairly usable example of how to keep people like OP away. Not using vulgar language is about as much kindness as they deserve due to the stark amount of damage they did to the Internet culture and imageboards specifically. Threads like this, along with political threads, are the most mindless cancer that exists in this universe.

 

Normal or not, it sounds delightful. Desire is the root of all suffering.

 

>posts about personal problems
>gets tagged as an incel
fuck this worthless board

 

>>5410
You're OP? I wouldn't let the accusations get to you. There are a lot of paranoid schizophrenics on imageboards who will accuse you of being from one of the many scary boogeyman boards they're paranoid about that week. You just tell them to take their meds or something and move on.

Your OP makes it sound like you might've developed low testosterone, and you probably jerk off too much too.

 


 

>>5414
Attacking random friends for no reason isn't helping anything or anyone.

 

>>5414
If you notice concerning changes in your libido as a man it could be helpful to look into issues with the main sex hormone in men. I have been falsely accused of being from 5 different boogeyman boards (including /cow/ for some reason) this week based on zero evidence. It's exactly what you're doing to this poor random anon. Your father is Satan the un/kind/ false accuser.

 

Okay just to clarify I'm not some incel or from the boogeyman board or wizchan or anything. I'm not complaining that women hate me or their all ugly. I'm complaining about me not liking them. I'm not attracted to people anymore and I don't know why. I used to be but not anymore. I don't even jerk off. That's all. I don't see what the big deal is. Fuck this board. Jesus I'm wasting my time here. Should have posted this somewhere else.

 

>>5418
Some people here hate /kind/ and just post out of spite.

 

>>5418
>Should have posted this somewhere else.
Correct.
>>5419
Kindness is received in return to kindness. Making a vent thread when there's one already isn't kind. Guilt tripping later over petty bickering isn't kind either. Expecting that people will waste their kindness on disrespectful and rude people is wishful thinking, and isn't kind either.

 

>>5420
Since when did the vent thread exist to contain everything else? It's for posts that aren't important enough to be in their own thread. Your sanctimonious assholery isn't justified by whatever rules you make up on the spot.

 

>>5420
For nearly a decade, people have created threads to seek advice, even when a vent thread was available. That is not un/kind/ in fact, it may be one of the most traditionally /kind/ things you can do. This just proves you'll fabricate any pretense to justify attacking friends so you can run them off the board.
>Guilt tripping
You hated the guy already. You're biased against him so you'll interpret everything he does in the most negative light possible.
>disrespectful and rude people
Oh damn, the massive disrespect of making a thread you didn't like on an imageboard. That's insane man. He didn't do shit to anyone until you started with your smears. OP was way more worthy of posting here than someone like you.

 

>>5421
His head would explode if he saw all of those threads just saying "Hi" and nothing else in any of our old catalogs. There was never any standard for what threads could be made besides the rules and those wouldn't preclude a thread like this from being made. What was important enough or not to be a thread was for the poster to decide. We need more old 8chan posters back. They really got what this board was about.

 

>>5395
if you're into the idea of love, and you're not attracted to a person's looks anymore, maybe you should look into whether they have an appealing personality?

>>5423
>8kind
yeah, it was a nice board culture. comfy board…

 

>>5424
I just don't feel drawn to people for some reason. Maybe I'm just distant from others? I don't make friends easily so maybe that's my problem. I tried this year and made two friends that I talk to semi regularly so that's a start.

 

>>5423
>We need more old 8chan posters back. They really got what this board was about.
This.

 

>>5413
You literally cannot have low testosterone if you're jerking off too much, you're actively asking your body to produce it. It's like telling a woman she's low on estrogen cause she's ovulating too much.

 

>>5395
>don't like jerking off
>it wasn't always this way
When did that start, did something happen?
Changes in your lifestyle, health or way you see yourself? Not sleeping well? What did you use to get aroused by, just people's physical bodies?
Maybe check out this https://www.nhs.uk/symptoms/loss-of-libido/
>I haven't had an irl romantic interest in nearly 3 years
It could be psychological then, maybe caused by your social environment.
Do you not hang out with people anymore the way you used to or do you see the people around you differently?
I have a tendency to self-isolate but making nice friends and getting closer to them emotionally makes me develop crushes.
>specifying that you don't find 3DPD porn arousing
>specifying that you stopped getting crushes on IRL people
What about 2D? You can have crushes on fictional people as well. When I was really deep in the waifu/husbando thing (I basically went full yume), it was really rare that I felt attracted to or aroused by anything other than my husbando, I felt a really deep emotional connection to him and I guess I'm just wired mongamously because seeing other people or characters just made me think "they're good-looking, but they're not him". I was socially self-isolating at the time though and my relationship to the character changed over time as well. Looking back, I'm a bit embarrassed about that particular 2D obsession (I don't usually tell irl people about it), but he made me really happy in my lonely time, so I don't regret it either.

 

>>5690
>When did that start, did something happen?
I can't pinpoint it exactly. It just slowly came on and the desire faded away. I've not been sleeping well and life has been high stress lately.

>What did you use to get aroused by, just people's physical bodies?

It was fairly normal before then. I was attracted to people sexually and romantically, not just people's bodies. I used to get crushes, lust after people too, and get horny but all that's long gone now.

>What about 2D?

Used to prefer it over 3DPD mind poison but I just don't feel the urge to seek it out. I get these "nah, some other time" feelings and can't be bothered to seek it out anymore.

>You can have crushes on fictional people as well.

I wouldn't know how to keep that up. I figure you'd need a good imagination to keep that going.

 

>>5395
its normal

totally normal

trust me, not being attracted isn't a state that has to last for a very short length of time.

more importantly, why exactly is this not normal for you? i mean im not trying to sound mean my words just come off like that sowwy

 

>>5693
I think the issue is that your poor sleep and high stress environment, coupled with simply getting older, has caused your testosterone to drop off, which has resulted in your lack of romantic interest/sexual arousal. If you are concerned about it you should probably get blood work down, but if that is prohibitively expensive, then I’d start with trying to fix your sleep schedule and maybe introduce some light weight-lifting/bodyweight exercise into your life (assuming you aren’t already). Your diet may also be contributing. Low libido is usually a sign of a deeper hormonal/physiological problem, so best not ignore it! Best of luck, fren!



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